The Turn Yourself On Podcast with Marina J

Episode13: Vibrating out the Blame Game!

December 22, 2020 Season 1 Episode 13
The Turn Yourself On Podcast with Marina J
Episode13: Vibrating out the Blame Game!
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The Turn Yourself On Podcast with Marina J
Episode13: Vibrating out the Blame Game!
Dec 22, 2020 Season 1 Episode 13

What’s blame? It’s unprocessed emotions projected onto someone, by someone who doesn’t want to take responsibility/do the work. I always used to adjust myself to friends and family and partners who put their moods onto me and their work onto me (ie their half of the relationship) because I grew up with people who couldn’t or didn’t want to do the work, so if I didn’t? There was NO relationship. Simples. So I inherently knew that I had to take the blame for things that were not mine in order to maintain relationships. Interestingly now I don’t do that anymore I’ve lost people... or rather, they’ve lost me.

For more love and support, head to https://marinaj.net/

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What’s blame? It’s unprocessed emotions projected onto someone, by someone who doesn’t want to take responsibility/do the work. I always used to adjust myself to friends and family and partners who put their moods onto me and their work onto me (ie their half of the relationship) because I grew up with people who couldn’t or didn’t want to do the work, so if I didn’t? There was NO relationship. Simples. So I inherently knew that I had to take the blame for things that were not mine in order to maintain relationships. Interestingly now I don’t do that anymore I’ve lost people... or rather, they’ve lost me.

For more love and support, head to https://marinaj.net/